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Today's the day. Many people have been coming and going, so much help offered from so many folks... Jean & David, Caren, Tim, Lee & Eric, Stacey, Mary, Sean, more I'm certainly forgetting... I'm truly blessed with amazing friends. My sister and brother have been here since Friday, and we finished going through the rest of Mom's things together. My dad has been incredibly patient with all the upheaval and constant questions, even while dealing with his own considerable amount of pain... I'm really proud of him.

Video is done and burned and tested. I'm building a memorial for my mom at the church... Julia made a big signboard full of all her pins, ID tags, and other bits. A table will have an assortment of her nursing tools, crafts, photos, favorite foods and music, sculptures from her travels... lots of goodies so people from all the different threads of her life can get a glimpse of other facets of her. Amanda is doing balloons; she found some gorgeous ones. Yes, I'll try to remember to take lots of pictures!

I got to chat this morning with Cordell in Japan... he's here in spirit, we know. He cited a specific memory of his grandmother in a letter he sent to be read at the service, and a similar event was also recorded in my mom's clippings, complete with a photo of him... it was very cool to see that the same thing was important to both of them. I scanned the clipping and sent it to him. I hope it makes him feel a little better about not being able to be here.

Today, I'll be seeing people I haven't seen in 10, 15, 20 years or more. This is both exhilarating and anxiety-provoking.

Well, here goes...

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Date: 2009-06-22 04:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mh75.livejournal.com
My thoughts are with you. Big hugs.

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Date: 2009-06-22 05:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] paulaandandrew.livejournal.com
Wishing you strength at this tricky time....

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Date: 2009-06-22 06:56 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] lunacow
It sounds like it's going to be a wonderful memorial. Good for you all in getting through so much difficult work. Thinking of you...

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Date: 2009-06-24 02:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elainetyger.livejournal.com
What she said. I hope you have some good rekindling of relationships.

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Date: 2009-06-22 09:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 2006in2006.livejournal.com
Hope everything went well... was thinking about this today.

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Date: 2009-06-22 09:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] uncanny-npl.livejournal.com
You're a good daughter, Gotcha. Your family's very lucky to have had you there to put this whole thing together. Sounds like it's going to be beautiful.

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Date: 2009-06-23 01:58 am (UTC)

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